On flow and slow

should we aim for one or the other?

“One life was never quite enough for what I had in mind.” —Seymour Krim

My husband and I had spent a lovely Thanksgiving morning with my mother, then drove to the woods to camp for a few days. Okay, not really camp. We stayed in a tiny cabin with large windows surrounded by a forest. In fact, the cabin had a flatscreen, and we ended up having to buy fire…